Six Signs of a Spiritually Divided Heart.

Psalm 119 provides all the answers we could ever hope for in regards to approaching the Bible with an undivided heart.

So how do I know if I’m seeking God with all my heart? 
How do I know if I love God with all my heart? 
How do I know if I believe God with all my heart? 

How do I determine if my heart is divided or united to fear God’s name in truth (Psalm 86:11)?


A cursory glance through Psalm 119 reveals the heart of an author wholly enveloped in the words of God that not only read the word of God on a regular basis, but lived its truth in his every-day life.

1. A spiritually divided heart is emotionally unstable.

“Blessed are they who keep his statutes and seek him with all their heart.” (Psalm 119:2) The Hebrew word for “blessed” in this passage is ‘esher (eh’-sher) which translates “happy”. 

Blessed does not mean wealthy, successful, powerful, popular, or prominent though it may certainly be a blessing to have those statuses. A divided heart is revealed in a saddened or discouraged countenance. Is my life characterized by happiness and peace or worry and confusion? Am I tossed into the depths of despair through every undesirable circumstance or have I entrusted my innermost source of happiness to God’s word? The only way I can have lasting happiness is to walk by and believe God’s word of truth.

2. A spiritually divided heart is wandering.

“I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands.” (Psalm 119:10) God’s word is not a list of rules keeping me boxed in under the heavy thumb of dictatorship. God’s word was inspired and written for my greatest good. The Bible clearly outlines and defines what path to travel, what attitude is appropriate, and what ministries to pursue. When I start to rely on my own reasoning, logic, and understanding, I stray from God’s perfect knowledge of His creation—me.  My heart is divided when I fight against the truth of God’s revealed word and willfully or ignorantly choose my own path.

3. A spiritually divided heart is selfish.

“Turn my heart towards your statutes and not toward selfish gain. Turn my eyes away from worthless things; preserve my life according to your word.” 

(Psalm 119:36-37) Left to my own devices I am bent towards selfishness. 

When I argue with my spouse over where to eat dinner I put my needs in front of his. When I am offended by the opinions of others, threatened by the status of a peer, or hesitant to give of my abundance to someone in need, I am selfish. I have strayed from God’s word and will and allowed my flesh to take over. My heart has been divided. I have failed to esteem others as better than myself (Philippians 2:3).

4.  A spiritually divided heart is inconsistent.

“This has been my practice: I obey your precepts.” (Psalm 119:56) Can I truthfully proclaim that I obey God’s word without falter every second of every day? Not a chance. However, the undivided heart, or the heart walking through life believing God’s word, will be swayed towards obedience. Willful rebellion will be the exception, not the rule. When my daily practice is devoted to knowing and following God’s word, my heart is united in truth.

5. A spiritually divided heart is malnourished.

“How sweet are your words to my taste; sweeter than honey to my mouth!” (Psalm 119:103) When I am hurt, angry, confused, or otherwise afflicted, where do I turn for guidance and comfort? Do I seek the opinions of friends, family, pastors, and teachers first or do I seek the counsel of God? The more of his words I consume, the more nourished I will be. 

When I neglect his guidance and first seek help from human sources I am left hungry and malnourished. If I don’t know the word of God, how will I know if the advice I’m given is biblical? Like the prophet Isaiah so eloquently stated: “Why spend money on what is not bread, and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good and your soul will delight in the richest of fare.” (Isaiah 55:2)

6. A spiritually divided heart is fearful.

“I will speak of your statutes before kings and will not be put to shame, for I delight in your commands because I love them.” (Psalm 119:46-47) If my Monday through Saturday life does not line up with my Sunday life, I should be afraid to speak of my faith. Without a living, active gospel displayed through my life, I will be put to shame when I witness to others. How can I preach to someone when my life is the opposite of my message? When I hear of terminally-ill loved ones, if unsure about their eternal destiny, I am motivated to witness to them before it’s too late. But was I motivated to witness before I knew they were sick? Shouldn’t every day be an opportunity to love God, live God, and display God in everything I do?  If I am not displaying the love of God by witnessing to my lost friends and neighbors, I am living in fear. I want my life to always back up my message and never distract from the wonderful, freeing truth of the Gospel of Christ.

Psalm 119 reminds to check my heart-status. 

Am I whole-heartedly seeking God and his word or am I offering up only the pieces I prefer? 

Can I stand beside the Psalmist and before God, unashamed and fully exposed and still declare, “My soul is consumed with longing for your laws at all times. Your statutes are my delight and I have chosen the way of truth.” (Psalm 119:20, 24, 30) That is my desire; to live with an undivided heart wholly united with God’s word.

Courage is indispensable for both spreading and preserving the truth of Christ. 

Paul warned that, even in the church, faithfulness to the truth would be embattled: 

"I know that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock; and from among your own selves men will arise, speaking perverse things, to draw away the disciples after them" (Acts 20:29-30; see also 2 Timothy 4:3-4).

Therefore, true evangelism and true teaching will take courage. Running from resistance in evangelism or teaching dishonors Christ. There is a kind of cowardice that tells only the truths that are safe to tell.

Martin Luther put it like this: If I profess with the loudest voice and clearest exposition every portion of the truth of God except precisely that little point which the world and the devil are at that moment attacking, 

I am not confessing Christ, however boldly I may be professing Christ. 

Where the battle rages, there the loyalty of the soldier is proved, and to be steady on all the battlefield besides is mere flight and disgrace if he flinches at that point. (Quoted in Parker T. Williamson, Standing Firm: Reclaiming Christian Faith in Times of Controversy [Springfield, PA: PLC Publications, 1996], p. 5)

Where then shall we get this courage? Consider these pointers.

FROM BEING FORGIVEN AND BEING RIGHTEOUS - "The wicked flee when no one pursues, but the righteous are bold as a lion" (Proverbs 28:1). "Seeing their faith, Jesus said to the paralytic, 'Take courage, son; your sins are forgiven'" (Mathew 9:2).

FROM TRUSTING GOD AND HOPING IN HIM - "Be strong and let your heart take courage, all you who hope in the LORD" (Psalm 31:24; see also 2 Corinthians 3:12).

FROM BEING FILLED WITH SPIRIT - "They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak the word of God with boldness" (Acts 4:31).

FROM GOD'S PROMISE TO BE WITH YOU - "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go" (Joshua 1:9).

FROM KNOWING THAT THE ONE WITH YOU IS GREATER THAN THE ADVERSARY: -"Be strong and courageous . . . for the one with us is greater than the one with him. With him is only an arm of flesh, but with us is the LORD our God to help us and to fight our battles" (2 Chronicles 32:7–8).

FROM BEING SURE THAT GOD IS SOVEREIGN OVER THE BATTLES - "Be strong, and let us show ourselves courageous for the sake of our people and for the cities of our God; and may the LORD do what is good in His sight" (2 Samuel 10:12).

THROUGH PRAYER - "On the day I called, You answered me; You made me bold with strength in my soul" (Psalm 138:3; see also Ephesians 6:19-20).

FROM THE EXAMPLE OF OTHERS - "Most of the brethren, trusting in the Lord because of my imprisonment, have far more courage to speak the word of God without fear" (Philippians 1:14).

What causes us to choose to be stubborn and What can we do to stop it!?

In Scripture, this word “stubborn” is often surrounded by other “challenging” words such as proud, rebellious, unfaithful, greedy, obstinate and defiant. 

None of these actions or attitudes are in line with Perfect Love.

They are defense mechanisms used to avoid or cope with conscious conflict or anxiety.

What does this have to do with stubbornness?

God makes this statement in Ezekiel 11:19 in reference to His people:
“I will give them singleness of heart (or an “undivided heart”) and put a new spirit within them. I will take away their stony, stubborn heart and give them a tender, responsive heart (or a “heart of flesh”).” (Ezekiel 11:19)

The root-words for “stony” or “stubborn” actually means to build, rebuild, establish, to guard, protect, and keep watch. What’s the point? Stubbornness is a means of protection that causes people to build walls in order to keep themselves safe. Stubbornness manifests in many different ways: arrogance, acting all-knowing, sarcasm, being inflexible, “being right,” arguing, debating, and silence or a total lack of willingness to engage.

When we only look at the behavior and fail to see the possible causes and reasons for the behavior, we judge others (and ourselves) and choose rejection, bitterness, and lack of relationship instead of choosing to love. When we choose to love an individual who is stubborn, the “walls” and defenses crumble and the person no longer has a need for this defense.

So, how do we overcome this issue?

1. Defend with the weapons the God provides.

We are instructed to “be alert and watchful” (1 Peter 5:8) and to do things like “put on the full armor of God” (Ephesians 6:10-18). Why? Because there is a very real enemy that is seeking to “steal, kill, and destroy” (John 10:10) us and the plans that God has for our lives. 

It would be unwise to allow our minds and hearts to fill with evil things or not to protect ourselves from the attacks of the enemy. But sometimes we get it wrong. We choose defense mechanisms that are unloving, isolating, ugly, and detrimental to our quality of life.

God wants to “…put a new spirit…”  in us; this is the Holy Spirit, His Spirit, the Spirit of God that created the universe! 2 Corinthians 10:4 says, “For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds.” Righteousness, peace, the Word, truth, and love… these are the defense mechanisms we are provided to use against the darkness. One of the most powerful weapons is forgiveness. We are urged in Colossians 3:13 to “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Forgiveness is an intense process that contributes to the destruction of a hard heart. Learning how to replace our instinctual or learned defenses with the one’s given by God can take work and practice! Seek help through counseling and community through a church where you feel loved and accepted. Proverbs 13:20 says, “He who walks with the wise grows wise,” and Hebrews 10:24-25 says, “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together.” We can learn from others about how to fight the battles in our lives; and to have support through them is always better than trying to do it alone. We are better together!

2. Singleness of heart.

The second way to overcome stubbornness is to be un-divided in our relationship with God. Division in our heart’s commitment causes us to be inconsistent and untrustworthy. 

James 1:8 says, “A double minded man is unstable in all his ways;” another version says, “Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do.” When we make a commitment to get married, we are saying through ceremony, vows, and postured heart “I am committing myself fully to you, I will not allow anything to cause my loyalty to be divided.” If we concede to share ourselves with another person in the context of marriage, we are obviously being adulterous and unfaithful. It really is the same thing with God. This tender, responsive “heart of flesh” that God wants to put inside of us is soft, malleable, moldable, shapable, fertile soil- in contrast to the stoney, walled-up, rocky, stubborn one that we can develop.

Check out the “Parable of the Sower” in Matthew 13:3-8. Jesus shares a powerful metaphor in just five sentences: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants. Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.” His message is clear- growth is very difficult, if not impossible if the ground is rocky and hard; but in rich, and healthy ground that is able to receive the ingredients for growing, there will be a great harvest!

God wants you to choose a hear that is committed to loving Him and in which His Holy Spirit can live. And “where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (2 Cor 3:17). Your heart can be a place of total freedom! Make the choice to defend yourself with weapons of Love and dedicate or rededicate yourself to Him and the plan that He has for your life. He is a good, good father (1 John 3:1) and wants to help you to become the best version of you! Trust Him, tear down the walls, and He will direct your future (Proverbs 3:5).

"Complete the Royal Rule of the Scriptures: when you play up to so called important people, you go against the rule and stand convicted by it. (James 1:27-2:1)

We are commanded to teach our children the do’s and don’ts of proper conduct. 

The first and best way to do that is by being a good role model.

Manners were God’s idea first. 
He gave us the Golden Rule in Matthew 7:12: Do to others what you would have them do to you. Jesus set the perfect example for us when He washed the disciples’ feet in John 3:3-5. He was Christ the King, but He humbled himself to serve others.

In Deuteronomy 32:46-47, we are commanded to teach our children the do’s and don’ts of proper conduct. The first and best way to do that is by being good role models. Our children will imitate us whether our actions are good or bad. As parents we should model good behavior by doing kind things for others.

Scripture also tells us “To train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.” (Proverbs 22:6) One way to interpret “in the way” is to teach a child according to his or her personality or natural bent – “Just as the twig is bent, the tree’s inclined.” (Alexander Pope) Some children learn best in role playing activities while others like to read and study the rules. Consider your child’s learning style for a more pleasant teaching experience.

Social skills learned at home can produce fruits of the Spirit ‘…love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” (Galatians 5:22) Interpersonal skills such as listening, opening doors, saying please, thank you, you’re welcome, and sharing with others reveal the good manners in our heart.

Rules of etiquette are in our head. Our manners are in our heart. Together they shield us against embarrassing ourselves or others. 

Etiquette rules tell us what to do and what not to do; however, if we correct someone’s table habits in public, we embarrass them, so the manners in our heart keep us from doing that. To keep the rules and observe the manners in our heart we can set a good example and hope others will notice.

Teaching manners to our children will build their self-confidence. Turning self-consciousness into confidence, knowing that they are made in God’s image, will open doors for our children to make friends, witness, and share God’s Word. I Corinthians 4:7 says, “…What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?”

Psalm 39:1 “…I will watch my ways and keep my tongue from sin….” As parents we should practice saying please, thank you, I’m sorry, and excuse me. We should avoid sarcasm and saying hurtful things. When we use a quiet voice to our children we encourage similar verbal communication in them.

Statesmen under God never posture back seat attitudes toward their duty.

The Importance of Character.

The Remnant.

Now having been final disciplined - America has a choice to make on November 06, 2024 under free will shall be furthered graced?

“I never knew you …”  Would Jesus really say that? 

There’s one part of the Bible that confuses many even to this day. It’s where Christians say to Jesus that they did many miracles and works in His name, but He says, “I never knew you.” 


The passage referred to is Matthew 7:21-23, and context is definitely the key to understanding this.

Matthew 7:21-23  Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.  Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?  And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

Who were these miracle workers who did great works only to be rejected when Jesus said, “I never knew you”?  has America been reading this out of context? How should this be understood?

Answer

The passage referred to is Matthew 7:21-23, and context is definitely the key to understanding this.

Let’s now consider those in the Matthew 7 passage who have evidence of fruit, but are denied by Jesus. 

In verse 21 Jesus stated that not everyone who professes to know Him will enter the kingdom of heaven.  Only those who “…do the will of My Father…”

Matthew 7:21  Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.

What is the will of the Father?

Jesus’ mission on earth was to seek and save the lost:

Luke 19:10  For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.

Jesus was obedient to the Father’s will of restoring mankind to a right relationship with God. We know that salvation is the will of God the Father.   Peter tells us that God is “not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9).  We also know that salvation is a gift from the Father.  It is by grace alone, through faith (Ephesians 2:8) that we are saved.  Salvation is freely given to all who repent and trust in the life, death, burial, and resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ.

The people spoken of in Matthew 7:22 are those who are numbered in the group Jesus spoke of in verse 21.  They will not enter the kingdom of heaven because they have not done the Father’s will.  They have not repented and trusted in Christ and therefore He does not know them.

Rightful Judging

You might ask, how can we judge their hearts and say they aren’t saved?  

Well, we aren’t judging their hearts. 

Let’s examine the passage. 

Jesus judged both their words and their works.  Remember, this judgment is future, and in that day they will call upon Jesus as Lord.  But on what basis do they know Him?  Their words reveal their hearts.  They spoke of the worthiness of their good works, the works that they had done, not the work Jesus did to secure salvation for mankind.

Matthew 7:22  Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works.

These people are counting on their good works to make them righteous, rather than the good work of Jesus and His imputed righteousness (2 Cor 5:21). They have not understood that there isn’t any good work that man can do to earn salvation.  Salvation is never earned.  It is freely given by God to those who are humbled, repent, and trust in Christ’s good work. The people claiming the merit of their good works are demonstrating pride, not humility, before God.

A Warning.

As Christians, we should understand this message as a warning.  There are wolves who look like sheep, and thorns that look like grapes. 

There are thistles that look like figs, and also non-Christians who look like Christians because of their words or their works.

Our words and our works should be a reflection of what’s in our hearts.  Carefully judge what people say.  If these people truly knew Jesus they would be praising His works, not their own works.  If they truly knew Jesus they would say, “but for the grace of God, I am not worthy of Your Kingdom.”  And by such a confession of faith and trust in God’s grace (Jesus’ work), they would be saved.

A Motivation

Share the gospel of saving grace with someone today.  Be faithful to proclaim the goodness of the Lord.  It’s all about Jesus!  Help people to understand that only by trusting in Jesus’ finished work will they enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

Jesus told us that He is preparing a place for those who trust in Him and He has promised, “I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.”  John 14: 3

And we receive that promise because Jesus said:

“…where I go you know, and the way you know.” (John 14:4 )
“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.” (John 14:6)

We have forgotten that it was the sin of pride 
that got Satan kicked out of Heaven.

The Remnant.

What will make God smile again ? The beginnings of all ends by a birthright toward shedding itself from it's unsound politics.